READ- Why Do Men Leave Me and Then Get Married To Another Woman Few Months Later?

                 Dear Agbo,
                                    I am an ardent follower of your blog and found most of the information/ stories there useful, insightful , encouraging. I would like you and fellow readers to chip in on this short story as I need your advice. I turned 32 this year and assessing my life  - God has been faithful in fact too faithful and I am very thankful. But like most young women my age , I deeply desire to have a family of my own.


            I have observed a trend in my love life - I always end up as" the one" before "the one".  It's happened three times now. These men can't seem to make up their minds about me, but with the next girl within " a year" or less and they are at the alter. I am no saint and have my faults - but I'm not a nasty person either... and I try, I really try.

With all 3 men, I've been cheated on and they drifted away quietly gradually until there was no contact. Two got girls pregnant ( one his ex , the other - he was probably dating us both at the same time come to think of it) There was never an opportunity to find out why they decided I wasn't the one for them.

With the second guy I tried to work things out despite the fact that he cheated and would not admit to cheating.  Coincidental at the time I moved to another town for work reasons and that seemed to benefit him as he took less of my calls, got a girl pregnant and married her 6 months later! Even though, he had told me at the start of the year , he wasn't ready to get married yet because of so many projects he had ongoing. We had dated for 2 years...

Writing this makes me come across as pathetic, I do not have a self-esteem problem that I am aware of - why I tried to make things work? I do not know. But where each time, six months to a year down the line - these guys marry another. I honestly cannot help but wonder and it really hurts

Why am I always prepping these men for other women to marry? Why am I always at the short end of the stick?

I'd like to read your thoughts and readers as well. I'll really like to hear from the male readers especially..