‘Women, Marry A Man Who Can Cook! Slavery Is Not Love’ – Charlyboy Reacts to Adeboye’s Marriage Advice Saga
Must you Marry?
For the past few days, pastor Adeboye’s advice to youths on marriage
have been trending all over the place. I suspect that the good pastors
yarns tells me that he is a man suspended in time, between old and new
school. Don’t get it twisted, in as much as I flow with his definition
of a good woman, from his statement I see that the obvious way to his
heart is through his stomach and of cause through prayers. Good, No
wahala.
However our amiable pastor rubs it in when he starts to yarn Akpata, ”
Marry a warrior, if a girl cannot pray for one hour, don’t marry her.
Don’t marry a girl who is lazy, who cannot cook. She needs to know how
to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to eat out at all times”
Hummm na wa! Really? Seriously?
So if my wife to be can’t rant, chant, shout and generally carry on
as a prayer warrior, praying for a whole hour, the woman doesn’t deserve
a wife status. Abi?
Oga pastor, that one na missyarn. Over praying does not make one a
better husband or wife, because the world especially Naija is filled
with Fake people and “Fakest” pastors. Does a man having a job guarantee
that he will make a good husband? Does a woman knowing how to cook
guarantee she will make a good wife? Haba.
Ok I get it, The Nigerian god has an ear infection, so we must shout
and pray for hours because that’s the only way he may listen to our
prayers, right? I know that a man is suppose to marry a helper and not a
cook or a house girl. By the way, is anything wrong with encouraging
your young male congregation to learn how to cook and do chores too.
“Do not marry a worldly lady” what the heck does that mean? Is it
about being materialistic or just being fashionable, looking nice. I
guess in your book we can’t be a good Christian if we got swagg and we
are trendy. Judge not pastor. We must all not look like Deeper Life
people to have a personal relationship with God. By the way, if you want
to start writing your own commandment you may as well write your own
version of the bible for your congregation. Na una way.
Being married should never define a man or a woman. Marriage in a few
years anyways, will be out of fashion. Being married is only nice if we
are lucky to pick a partner who will be our friend, if not, that maybe
hell on earth. All of us must not get married if our threshold for
nonsense and garbage is low. The world is obviously changing and we are
no longer in the 60s. Who wants to be suffering and smiling. Most
importantly marriage should not be a milestone for anyone. Yes o.
Like I always say, it will take two to tango. Marriage only works
when partners are determined to make it work. It can never be a merit
badge, or a status for happiness. Many of us are enslaved in our myopic
mindset that makes a mess out of what should really be a good
friendship. So Oga pastor Adeboye, watch your yarns because a lot of
people lookup to you, Biko. I don talk my own.
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